Personal Growth

Trusting Yourself

Trusting Yourself 640 640 Sharna Fabiano

It’s almost a cliché to say, “trust yourself,” when beginning any new endeavor, but I find it’s tricky to pin down in terms of concrete experience. How, exactly, do I…

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Art is for Everyone

Art is for Everyone 640 427 Sharna Fabiano

In her beautiful book, Brave Intuitive Painting, my teacher Flora Bowley writes, “For many years I struggled with my desire to paint for the sake of exploration, raw expression, and…

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Working with Resistance

Working with Resistance 900 600 Sharna Fabiano

When we set out to make a change in any part of our lives, especially the kind of change related to our own creative growth, we often experience some level…

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Taming the Inner Critic

Taming the Inner Critic 900 600 Sharna Fabiano

Many of us have an inner critic, that voice of doubt, judgement, or skepticism that appears when we speak or act out of our comfort zone, or even within our…

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Boosting Your Creativity

Boosting Your Creativity 900 599 Sharna Fabiano

Advice on “how to be creative” may feel like a contradiction in terms, because if we’re following a formula, or set of repeatable instructions, it seems like we’re tamping down…

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Go Deeper with Journaling

Go Deeper with Journaling 900 600 Sharna Fabiano

Do you ever wonder if writing things down in a journal really helps? In my own journaling practice, I have discovered that some light structure often helps me to get…

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Leaading and Following

Leading and Following in Life

Leading and Following in Life 570 359 Sharna Fabiano

The way we think about gender roles in social dance is changing as we learn to embody our current social values on the dance floor. I’m often asked why so…

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Self-Care First

Self-Care First

Self-Care First 640 640 Sharna Fabiano

Self-care often seems counter-intuitive when there is so much “other stuff” to be done, and when the need for that other stuff seems so urgent. But no real change can…

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Social Bias: Interview with Isaac Oboka

Social Bias: Interview with Isaac Oboka 781 781 Sharna Fabiano

My partner Isaac and I recently celebrated ten adventurous years together. This is a wonderful, lovely thing, but it’s a thing that I sometimes remember would not have been ok…

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